SHU QI

很久沒有上網留言了,我想我真是一個懶人,很多人常常抽空,就算再累,晚,也會更
新一下自己的部落格,而我常常只是打開電腦,上了網站,之後對著螢幕~~發呆!
不知道這樣可不可以跟沒靈感這個說詞 高攀呢?

It's been a while since I’ve written something. I’ve come to the
conclusion that I must truly be a lazy person. Lots of people will
make time from their busy schedules to update their blogs no matter
how late it is or how tired they are. As for me, turning on the
computer, getting online, and staring blankly at the screen is the
usual sequence of events. Does "lack of inspiration" count as a
noble excuse?

前一陣子一位老友的父親,因為嚴重肝病,需要緊急換肝, 看著我那位孝順的老友四
圍奔波,24小時陪伴在徹,不眠不休的為他父親的病煩惱,崩潰,哭泣,實在是很讓人
心疼,當然她的孝心有感動到上天,他父親的病漸漸轉好,而這孝女也終可放心!

Recently, the father of a long time friend needed a live transplant.
Seeing my dear loving friend running around for help, spending 24
hours a day by her father's bedside, worrying and crying helplessly
was heart-breaking. Fortunately, her sincere heart reached heaven and
her father recovered little by little. This loving daughter finally
has the relief as she deserves.

樹欲靜而風不止,子欲養而親不在~還好我那位愛喝酒的老爸,身體只有一些喝酒症
候群的小病,而我家的老媽子 除了貧血就是手疼,希望他們好好注意身體,但其實還
是要做子女的在旁督導!!

Time and tide wait for no man, including one’s own parents. Lucky for
me, my alcohol-loving father has only minor illnesses due to drinking
and my mother is quite healthy except anemia and arthritis. I hope
they take better care of themselves, but I know it’s even more
important that their daughter and son take care of them!

但對喜愛四處漂泊的我,經過這次我的好友事件,再怎樣的愛漂泊,也必須把這心情
放下,現在只要沒工作,便回台,唸唸我那酒鬼老爸,或許借對耳朵聽我老媽傾訴,看
看我那小開老弟做些啥;當然還是偶爾會被氣的反駁幾句,最終我還是會忍下來 滴
啦; 在他們的世界裡的那個世界,並不一定就是我所了解的世界,代溝~~他們已經有
一個幾十年的生活方式,我~~並不需要強硬的將他扭轉, 只要順著他們的方式,跟他
們聊天哈啦~~ 相處 原來 很簡單!

Although I love to wandering about and constantly travel, after the
incident of my friend I’ve been trying not to. Nowadays, I always go
back to Taiwan when I have a break between work to nag my father about
his drinking problem, to lend my ears to my mom, and to check in with
my maverick brother. Of course I still talk back when they get on my
nerves, but in the end I always endure. The world of theirs is not
necessarily the world I know, there's definitely a generation gap.
They’ve lived their lives their own way for decades and I don't intend
on changing them. I’m just trying to be a little more obedient and to
just chat with them more... and I’ve found getting along can actually
be very simple.

很多人都常說父母不了解我,(這句話我講了不下千百萬次) 但是我又何嘗了解他們
呢? 小時候叛逆,跟父母的距離很遠, 討厭愛喝酒的爸爸,愛生氣打人的媽媽~~為了
不想再挨棍子 當我一開始打工賺錢,可以自力更生時,我便逃的遠遠 遠遠的!當時
的我覺得 那是一種束縛的解脫,雖然一個人在外生活不易,但在怎麼辛苦也不想回
去讓我害怕的家!
Many people say "my parents don't get me" (I know I've said it million
times), but on the other hand, do I really get them? I was rebellious
when I was younger and always kept a distance from them. I hated my
drunk father and grumpy, violent mother so I ran away as soon as I
could make my own living to get away from the beatings. By myself, I
felt liberated and wanted to never return to the home I was so afraid
of, no matter how harsh living on my own was.

直到一天,看到母親白髮,通紅的雙眼, 才開始省思,我那時的決定,對嗎? 原來我真
的是她生的,原來她是愛我的? 那時候的我們不懂,其實有別的管道可以好好溝通,
只是我們並沒有發現!!

Until one day, I saw my mother again, her hair had become white and
her eyes were red from crying. Only then did I wonder if leaving
them was, in fact, the right decision. And perhaps, I was my
mother’s child, and that she did love me? Back then, we didn't
understand there were better ways to communicate, but we just hadn’t
found them!!
慢慢腦袋長大了,聊著看著,身邊有著許許多多不一樣的故事,才感受到年輕的|小
孩|帶著兩個小小孩在社會上生活立足養家活口的緊張壓力;自己當時真的是年幼無
知,簡稱~~~幼稚 ,想想 有哪一家子不是在辛辛苦苦的生活著, 我...並沒有特殊的
資格拂袖而去,離家出走,批判自己的家庭!

Over time, my mind slowly matured, I discussed, observed, so many
different real life stories around me, and began to understand how
stressful it must have been for two young kids to make a living and
provide for their own two, much younger kids. I was so young and
ignorant and…well, to put it simply, childish. Think about it, what
family doesn’t struggle to live? And who am I to turn my back on them
and judge my family?

現在我跟父母就像朋友般,陪他們搓搓麻將打打四色牌,喝喝茶,做蛋糕, 當然 有時
也會有彼此看不順眼對方的時候,就像右腳有時也會不小心拐到左腳一樣,就把自己
不高興的事情跟他們說說,他們不理解,不接受,那就換個方法自己吸收,大家的觀點
就會平衡, 相處就是這麼簡單!
Now my parents and I are like friends. We play card games, drink tea
and make cakes together. Of course sometimes we still rub each other
in the wrong way, just like the right foot can sometimes get in the
way of the left foot. But I'll tell them what I am not happy with,
and if they can't take It, I try to find another way to deal with the
feeling so we can find a balanced point of view. Getting along is
really that simple.

好好跟愛自己,自己也愛的人相處,珍惜眼前人,默契,是磨合出來的,生活是創造出
來的,有一首聖歌 : 愛是 恆久忍耐又有恩慈, 愛是不忌妒, 愛是 不自誇 不張
狂, 不做害羞的事, 不求自己的益處, 不輕易發怒, 不計較人家的惡, 不喜歡不義
只喜歡真理!!! 有愛在心中, 心存善念, 珍惜眼前 ~ 知足 常樂 ! 我也在一步
一步走著摸索著, 共勉之!!

Try to get along with people who love you, and who you love, and
cherish the people in your life. We understand one another by
testing, by trial and error, and our lives are what we make of them.
There is a gospel song that goes: “Love is patient and kind; love does
not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on
its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at
wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Keep love
in your heart and good thoughts in your mind. Cherish what you have
and be fulfilled with them! I am still learning with each step I
make, and still finding my way. Let’s support and encourage each
other!

著名艺人舒淇应邀参加今季GUESS 09 FW 新品 Star Jeans 系列的主题拍摄。有人说舒淇拥有的性感是天真诱惑，有人说那其实是魅惑妖娆，又有人说那是邻家女孩的清新性感，也有人说那是不轻易被俘虏的冷艳性感。拥有 “性感百变女王”桂冠的舒淇，在此次拍摄中，身着12套Star Jeans系列服装，演绎以下她与Star Jeans冥冥中意外契合的百变性感气质。

World acclaimed artist, Shu Qi, is chic, sexy, adorable and passionate about her work. When asked how she felt about participating in the filming of Cartier Trinity collection, she said, with a laugh, she worked with great enjoyment. Being admired by so many fans, Shu Qi’s most admired brand is indeed Cartier. She appreciates the perfect craftsmanship of every Cartier creation and its histoire. Her collection of Cartier accessories includes some limited edition. Shu Qi agrees with the original concepts of Cartier Trinity collection, she believes love, friendship and perseverance are the core to connect everyone, anymore at anytime and place. Shu Qi redefines her own Trinity and hopes to share with everyone in the world.